Fe-Fe's World Of Craft, Creations and Kids.

This blog was started mainly for my crafting, however I also find myself writing about my family life too and in particular about my son Josh. Josh is just Josh to us and we're used to his quirky behaviour. As I don't want to have to mention Josh's autism every time I post about him, I thought I'd mention it here. Hopefully you will bear this in mind as you read and it may give you a little insight into the wonderful world of the autisic child in a very gentle way!

Sunday, 9 December 2007

Christmas Fair

Sorry I haven't updated for ages. I have been so busy getting thing ready for the Christmas Fair at my children's school. I will not be doing a stall there again though. I will just stick to supplying the flower shop from now on.

I was in such a rush I forgot to make a note of the names of the papers as I used them. Doh! The "Princess" was done on my Cricut and the flowers and large brads are by Papermania. The butterfly I decoupaged from an off cut of the same paper and added gems to the dots on the wings.

This black and pink box I made in the summer but I bought some new ribbons which came in a pack with some large pink and black blooms which I thought would look better that the Cricut flower that was originally on it. I also added the black velvet rickrack ribbon around the edge. This one sold.

I love the stamp on this orange and green one because it reminds me of my daughter Ellie. She always has her hair in plaits (braids) like this for school. The paper and ribbons are by Blonde Moments. The stamp is by Penny Black.

This cotton wool holder was originally a cotton bud holder which just happened to get all used up the day before the Christmas Fair so I thought I'd alter it just for fun. it could probably do with a little more adding to it but it made my stall look less empty!

7 comments:

Debbie said...: WoW, love all these Fe, they are beautiful, well done and fab ideas. :) :)

Thanks for visitng my blog, and I think your idea is great and will remeber it when I am next scrapping. :) ;) ;)

Thanks for the input - I really appreciate it. :)

Debbie x; 9 December 2007 at 13:53
pescbrico said...: WOW, the are super lovely!! I would have bought one of them no problem! :) But I bet it was a lot of work! Thanks for sharing; 9 December 2007 at 14:40
ScrapMomOf2 said...: They're wonderful! My dog's name is Princess, so I really like the first one! The second one is Provo Craft papers from a Slab, because I have those same papers, and I love them! They're all just wonderful! Great job!; 9 December 2007 at 16:37
My Paper World said...: Wow! Great projects! I especially love the green and orange one!; 9 December 2007 at 16:50
jay670120 said...: wow wish our school xmas fair had cute stuff like these.
I dodnt know how you part with it all i would want to keep it not sell it. Hope you raised lots of pennies xxxx; 10 December 2007 at 12:49
Dawn Wheeler said...: These are so georgeous ,i so love them ,Dawnx; 10 December 2007 at 23:29
Michelle Short said...: WOW! What great altered boxes & tins, they look fab! Must of taken you ages to do them but worth the effort :0); 11 December 2007 at 16:55

Ode to Special Mums

Ode to Special Moms(by Erma Bombeck)

Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures and a couple by habit. This year, nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen?

Somehow I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
"Armstrong, Beth, son, patron saint, Matthew.
Forrest, Marjorie, daughter, patron saint, Cecilia.
"Rudledge, Carrie, twins, patron saint, give her Gerard. He's used to profanity."
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles, "Give her a handicapped child."

The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy."

"Exactly," says God. "Could I give a handicapped child to a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."

"But has she patience?" asks the angel.

"I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wear off, she'll handle it.
"I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independence that is so rare and so necessary in a mother. You see, the child I'm going to give her has his own world. She has to make it live in her world, and that's not going to be easy."

"But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."

God smiles. "No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness."

The angel gasps, "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"

God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a 'spoken word.' She will never consider a 'step' ordinary. When her child says 'Momma' for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her child, she will see it as few people ever see my creations."I will permit her to see clearly the things I see...ignorance, cruelty, prejudice...and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life, because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."

"And what about her patron saint?" asks the angel, pen poised midair.

God smiles. "A mirror will suffice."

"Welcome to Holland"

"Welcome to Holland" By Emily Perl Kingsley

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......

When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."

"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."

But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away...because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss. But...if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.