Fe-Fe's World Of Craft, Creations and Kids.: Very Kind and Generous Blogging Friend

Wednesday, 20 August 2008

Very Kind and Generous Blogging Friend

A few weeks ago whilst catching up on my favourite blogs I happened to comment on a blogging friend's blog how much I liked one of the stamps she'd used on her card. It's one I've been tempted to buy myself so many times but I really do need to use the ones I have now first before I buy any more!

This sweet friend then emailed me to ask if I would like her to stamp some out to send to me. I said that would be very kind and offered to send her some of mine in return but insisted that she had plenty and didn't need any more. She also said she would only send them if I promised not to reveal who they came from. I said her secret is safe with me! (wink)

The thing is that not only did she stamp out the image that I liked but she also sent me lots of other adorable images too and, as if that wasn't generous enough, she also included a little bag of ribbons and flowers and paperclips and all kinds of other lovely things too. It was such a wonderful surprise.

So, a really big thank you secret blogging friend, you know who you are! :-)

I can't wait to use some of those gorgeous images now. My fingers are twitching just thinking about it! Lol!

4 comments:

Casdok said...: How thoughtful. Isnt blogging great!; 21 August 2008 at 09:21
Deanne said...: as casdok has said, i love blogging, i've made tons of great crafting and non crafting buddies on here.
gorgeous images and one lucky girl you are :) x; 21 August 2008 at 15:16
Dee said...: Your Blogging friend deserves a pat on the back for her generosity. That's crafters for you :-)

Mum XXXX; 21 August 2008 at 23:08
Anonymous said...: What a lovely gesture by your secret blogging friend. There are indeed some lovely people in blogland and even more so in crafting blogland :o); 22 August 2008 at 16:33

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Ode to Special Mums

Ode to Special Moms(by Erma Bombeck)

Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures and a couple by habit. This year, nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen?

Somehow I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
"Armstrong, Beth, son, patron saint, Matthew.
Forrest, Marjorie, daughter, patron saint, Cecilia.
"Rudledge, Carrie, twins, patron saint, give her Gerard. He's used to profanity."
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles, "Give her a handicapped child."

The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy."

"Exactly," says God. "Could I give a handicapped child to a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."

"But has she patience?" asks the angel.

"I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wear off, she'll handle it.
"I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independence that is so rare and so necessary in a mother. You see, the child I'm going to give her has his own world. She has to make it live in her world, and that's not going to be easy."

"But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."

God smiles. "No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness."

The angel gasps, "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"

God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a 'spoken word.' She will never consider a 'step' ordinary. When her child says 'Momma' for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her child, she will see it as few people ever see my creations."I will permit her to see clearly the things I see...ignorance, cruelty, prejudice...and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life, because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."

"And what about her patron saint?" asks the angel, pen poised midair.

God smiles. "A mirror will suffice."

"Welcome to Holland"

"Welcome to Holland" By Emily Perl Kingsley

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......

When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."

"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."

But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away...because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss. But...if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.