Fe-Fe's World Of Craft, Creations and Kids.: Happy Birthday Card

Wednesday, 7 October 2009

Happy Birthday Card

I made this card using free papers from a craft magazine. The image is one I was given by a blogging friend which I've coloured with Twinkling H2Os. I added a small Happy Birthday peel off to the edge of the circle of the stamped image to finish.

My mum and auntie are over visiting today, they nearly didn't come as Ellie is off school with a tummy bug and I wasn't sure if they wanted to run the risk of catching it but they decided they would still come anyway. Ellie seems fine in herself but she keeps having stomach cramps and her numbers twos aren't quite right if you know what I mean?! I'm hoping she will be back to normal tomorrow as it seems a shame for to miss school when she's ok to play but just can't trust her body. Poor little thing, last week she was off school because she was being sick and now it's the other end! I'm wondering if it's part of the same bug or whether she's caught this one after being run down from the sickness one. To top that off everyone except me is full of cold too. I guess it's just that time of year. lol.

4 comments:

cheryl said...: oh this is beautiful hun love that image and the colurs are beautiful too love cheryl xxxxxxx; 7 October 2009 at 23:42
Risa said...: So sorry to hear that your daughter is sick. Kids pick up so much at school and this is the season for colds etc. Hopefully she will feel better soon!
Your card is beautiful Fe-Fe! I love the soft colors and your image is adorable!
hugs
Risa:); 8 October 2009 at 11:21
Anonymous said...: You are truly one of the most creative (if not THE MOST) person I know. You make such beautiful cards!

I hope Ellie is feeling better!

Have a good weekend!; 9 October 2009 at 18:43
friday feeling said...: Another beautiful card - lovely soft colours.
I hope Ellie feels better soon (& everyone else full of colds!); 11 October 2009 at 19:04

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Ode to Special Mums

Ode to Special Moms(by Erma Bombeck)

Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures and a couple by habit. This year, nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen?

Somehow I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
"Armstrong, Beth, son, patron saint, Matthew.
Forrest, Marjorie, daughter, patron saint, Cecilia.
"Rudledge, Carrie, twins, patron saint, give her Gerard. He's used to profanity."
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles, "Give her a handicapped child."

The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy."

"Exactly," says God. "Could I give a handicapped child to a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."

"But has she patience?" asks the angel.

"I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wear off, she'll handle it.
"I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independence that is so rare and so necessary in a mother. You see, the child I'm going to give her has his own world. She has to make it live in her world, and that's not going to be easy."

"But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."

God smiles. "No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness."

The angel gasps, "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"

God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a 'spoken word.' She will never consider a 'step' ordinary. When her child says 'Momma' for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her child, she will see it as few people ever see my creations."I will permit her to see clearly the things I see...ignorance, cruelty, prejudice...and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life, because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."

"And what about her patron saint?" asks the angel, pen poised midair.

God smiles. "A mirror will suffice."

"Welcome to Holland"

"Welcome to Holland" By Emily Perl Kingsley

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......

When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."

"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."

But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away...because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss. But...if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.