Fe-Fe's World Of Craft, Creations and Kids.

This blog was started mainly for my crafting, however I also find myself writing about my family life too and in particular about my son Josh. Josh is just Josh to us and we're used to his quirky behaviour. As I don't want to have to mention Josh's autism every time I post about him, I thought I'd mention it here. Hopefully you will bear this in mind as you read and it may give you a little insight into the wonderful world of the autisic child in a very gentle way!

Wednesday, 7 May 2008

Card And Present For Luke

Ellie has a birthday party to go to on Saturday. Her friend Luke will be 5 so I made him this card and tin and I've bought a set of small cars to go in the tin too.

The stamp is by Whipper Snapper, The papers and brads are by Hot Off The Press and the "Luke" and 5 were done on the Cricut using the ZooBalloo cartridge.

For the tin I used papers by Hot Off The Press, the "Luke" was done on the Cricut and welded using the software. The bulldozer stamp is by Woodware and I can't remember who the Jeep one is by.

16 comments:

Unknown said...: I love this card! The colour combo is great for a boy and I have to say this is ones of the best stamp images I have seen in ages - ChrissyX; 7 May 2008 at 13:02
ScrapMomOf2 said...: Ellie has the luckiest friends, because these cards and tins are fantastic! What a great gift! I love both the card and the tin! Awesome work!; 7 May 2008 at 14:00
Ana Baird said...: Great card and tin! They're stunning!; 7 May 2008 at 16:12
Sammie said...: Cooooo -what do you have to do to be friends with Ellie??? It's my birthday next weekend -I'm thinking of having a party just so I can invite Ellie!!! No need to put my age on the card tho" LOL!!!
Love,
SammieJay xxx; 7 May 2008 at 16:33
Maria said...: Oh, how cute! Such a great birthday card for a 5 year old boy and the tin box is fabulous! I'm sure he'll find a lot of stuff to put inside it!

Maria; 7 May 2008 at 17:57
Crafty Connie said...: The card and tin is fantastic. Luke will love this gift.; 7 May 2008 at 18:31
My Paper World said...: What a great image for a boy's card Fiona! and your colouring looks amazing! Love the cute tin too!
Nicola xx; 7 May 2008 at 19:06
Bee's Zen Garden said...: Love those colors of blue and brown. :-); 8 May 2008 at 00:33
Risa said...: Your card is adorable and I love the altered tin...very cute!!
malieta:); 8 May 2008 at 03:40
jay670120 said...: I love the card and tin , they are fabby . Wish i was ellies friend with pressies like these :D; 8 May 2008 at 10:03
Dawn said...: Fe
Love the Dino stamp - great card and colours; 8 May 2008 at 20:10
Unknown said...: Fe, I meant to ask, did you get my email ok? not that it matters but I hate to think anyone thinks I ignore their comments!...and all of mine keeps ending up in my spam folder!!!!And all my spam ends up in the Inbox!!!; 9 May 2008 at 10:31
Debbie said...: Love those stamps Fe - and the tin, what a brilliant idea and cars in too - he will be sooooo chuffed when he opens it. :) :)

Debbie x; 10 May 2008 at 12:59
Judy said...: Great card and love the tin.; 10 May 2008 at 16:07
Em said...: Just completely gorgeous - perfect for her friend.; 11 May 2008 at 08:36
Anonymous said...: Fabby! You are so lucky that you have young children, when my son was young scrapping, making cards and the like didn't exist in England.; 18 May 2008 at 15:39

Ode to Special Mums

Ode to Special Moms(by Erma Bombeck)

Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures and a couple by habit. This year, nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen?

Somehow I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
"Armstrong, Beth, son, patron saint, Matthew.
Forrest, Marjorie, daughter, patron saint, Cecilia.
"Rudledge, Carrie, twins, patron saint, give her Gerard. He's used to profanity."
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles, "Give her a handicapped child."

The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy."

"Exactly," says God. "Could I give a handicapped child to a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."

"But has she patience?" asks the angel.

"I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wear off, she'll handle it.
"I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independence that is so rare and so necessary in a mother. You see, the child I'm going to give her has his own world. She has to make it live in her world, and that's not going to be easy."

"But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."

God smiles. "No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness."

The angel gasps, "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"

God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a 'spoken word.' She will never consider a 'step' ordinary. When her child says 'Momma' for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her child, she will see it as few people ever see my creations."I will permit her to see clearly the things I see...ignorance, cruelty, prejudice...and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life, because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."

"And what about her patron saint?" asks the angel, pen poised midair.

God smiles. "A mirror will suffice."

"Welcome to Holland"

"Welcome to Holland" By Emily Perl Kingsley

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......

When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."

"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."

But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away...because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss. But...if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.